Not so helpful younger sister advice, ACTIVATE!

[grifstar]

Okay... yeah, this was quite a shocker, I know even the first time he considered it it had us all really surprised. And yet me and my brother both agree, while he was a nice and very decent guy, both of us never thought you two really "connected" so well. In fact it's amazing it went on for this long (5 years now, was it..?)

..... But is it REALLY necessary to lie around and cry your eyes out for almost 2 days straight because you and your boyfriend broke up?. If it wasn't "your fault" why it happened, then just deal with it and move on. There's most likely nothing you can do, and there's certainly nothing any of us can do about it. So stop feeling so sorry for yuorself and just grow up(yeah, I know that sounds pretty harsh). All you're doing right now is beating yourself up for nothing... And frankly everyone is getting a little tired of your bawling. Because even though you're kind of in the farthest room we all can hear you quite well, even from the outside.


This just further proves my point that relationships are really, utterly pointless even though ironically enough, I just got a claim from is_my_bf yesterday, just for laughs. Even though I'm getting REALLY worried what's going to happen within the next month. I'm SO HOPING I have a job by then, though... at least .___.

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[shirato]

I've actually been in her place before... and that was with a relationship of just one year, so I can imagine that it affects her 5 times more.

It's something you really can't understand until you go through it... but... It really can be devastating.

I'm sure she'll be all right eventually, but... It's probably best to give support when you can and let her be when she needs to be alone. I hope she feels better soon though ;~~;

[grifstar.livejournal.com]

*sigh* I guess so... and know that's probably the case


If anything, I'm really glad I'm immuned to that kind of stuff.. .__.;

[shirato]

It's a good thing to be immune to;;